Revert to name/value storage inside node

This temporarily increases the node size to 16 bytes - we'll bring it back.

It allows us to remove the horrible node_pi hack and to reduce the amount of
changes against master. This comes at the price of not decreasing basline
xml_node_struct size.

The compact xml_node_struct is also increased by this change but a followup
change will reduce *both* xml_attribute_struct and xml_node_struct (to 8/12
bytes).