WIP: Always reuse the incoming connection to the rank 0 reader
Always reuse the incoming connection to the rank 0 reader rather than using CMget_conn() to get a new one. This is no real change with public IP on both sides because CMget_conn() should just return that incoming connection. However if the reader is behind a NAT, CMget_conn() wouldn't work and initiating a new connection won't work either. This will allow limited functionality for 1x1 staging with a private reader.
Currently creating the PR to run this through the sanitizers.